May 14,2015 was hard...

""Man dies in crash on 210 Freeway in PasadenaBy: Brian Day Thursday, May 14, 2015 - 7:36 p.m.PASADENA >> A man died after his car collided with a delivery truck on the rain-slickened 210 Freeway in Pasadena on Thursday afternoon, officials said. The crash occurred about 2:45 p.m. on the westbound 210 Freeway at Lincoln Avenue, California Highway Patrol Officer Patrick Kimball said. Initial reports indicated a gray sedan hydroplaned and went out of control before crashing into the truck, Kimball said.The front end of the car became pinned beneath the truck, trapping the driver, Kimball said. The man, estimated to be about 30, was pronounced dead at the scene. Officials issued a Sig Alert affecting the right-hand lane of the westbound 210 Freeway through 7 p.m. officials said. Officers from the CHP's Altadena office are handling the investigation.""

Jonathan Stewart James was by far one of the most amazing people that ever walked into my life. I met him 9 years ago, and my love only grew stronger with every year of friendship. One of those people you can go to with your best or worst days, he was always there. In recent years I didn't get to spend nearly enough time with him, but we talked at least weekly, and I know that he was the happiest now then he has ever been. I am honored to have called him a dear friend. It's truly amazing how one person can make such a positive impact on so many people's lives. I hate that it takes such tragedy to open my eyes, but I'm going to be making some changes and different choices in my life. It's time to let go of grudges and be kind to one another. Life is too short for petty stuff. We lost a great man, but we gained an even better angel. My heart is broken but I rest assured that he will be watching over me daily. Rest in paradise Mr. James.

"When I have come to the end of the road 

and the sun has set for me

I want no rites in the gloom filled room,

Why cry for a soul set free.

Miss me a little - but not too long 

And not with your head bowed low 

Remember the love that we once shared 

Miss me -but let me go

For this is a journey we all must take 

And each must go alone 

It's all a part of the master plan 

A step on the road to home

When you are lonely and sick of heart

Go to the friends and family we know 

And burry your sorrows in doing good deeds

Miss me-but let me go"